To call the experience so far as a game-changer, would be an understatement.
Because I have invested a four-figure tuition, I will not reveal the complete details I’ve gleaned so far, but I will share a few poignant highlights that are helping me to break away from some of the old ways I’ve operated my business and my life in the past.
1) I’ve learned more about digital distractions, social media, and associated marketing ploys and mindless entertainment which have become a blood-sport for our attention. We are knowingly doing it to ourselves. Our collective productivity as a society has dropped measurably because of it, costing U.S. businesses $650 billion a year. We love it…and most of us are addicted.
It’s the tail wagging the dog. Now, no longer do I feel I am a slave to checking my email at all times. No guilt. And I do not allow anyone in the house to have their phones on the table at meal times. Ringers, pings are off or the phone’s in another room. Manners, please!
Don’t even consider looking at cell phones or texting while driving (God forbid), in bed, the bathroom,(ugh) or even when it’s not ringing or vibrating. I’ve been successfully activating the silence switch on my phone or simply ignoring it during several 90 minute stretches each day while I focus on getting things done. This simple act is bringing results, and less stress into the day, because I’m getting more done! When I get more done, I can sleep better at night, and it gets me closer to my ultimate goals
2) I subscribe to the concept that the biggest challenge and skill required to succeed in the 21st century is learning to control ATTENTION.
3)Check out these interesting factoids: from the All Things D Report
a. 66% have nomophobia, the fear of being out of mobile phone contact -NBC News
b.33% would give up sex to keep their smart phone
c. 50% would give up caffeine
d. 66% would give up chocolate
e. 50% would give up exercise
f. 70% would give up alcohol (trading one addiction for another?)
g. 43% would give up shoes (Really?)
I’m working on my agenda now. Not someone else’s. Some of the following agenda items require more time and planning, which I call the “big hairy bull-frogs”. Here are most of the current to-do list items, aside from ongoing daily voiceover work and auditions:
-Update character demo
-Schedule annual physical appointment
-Redesign of branding and website- The biggest, hairiest one of them all!
-Look into European vacation
-Enroll in improv class
-Meet with financial planner
-Create and update a new marketing/editorial calender
-Hire a social media assistant
Of course the list goes on . So focus is key to sanity and productivity. I’m running with it!